Integral assessment with love and kindness

In order to identify the aspects of my life that need attention, I have focused on the my son's school work difficulties causing me the most distress and finding my best ability to grow and develop is to work with him on improving ways of handling his work load and more effective was in addressing difficult emotions to each other.  I know that immediately I need to involve myself in more love and kindness meditative practices to ensure I am approaching my son and myself with love and kindness.  This way when highly stressed, I can take a step back and work towards it with an open heart and compassion.  I realize that plans need to be made on both my son's end and myself to ensure long term change.  Even though working with him on his struggles can help him know, we need to work together to find a way or a routine that becomes something he can use his entire life.  This can also be used for how we communicate with one another.  Instead of becoming harsh and thoughtless, we can use love and kindness towards one another, understanding the others imperfections and accepting them for who they are.  Opening the heart towards each to communicate and understand each other better.  In analyzing these types of issues and changes, we can develop psychospirtually towards strengthening our minds towards these different perspectives.  We can both develop a better listening and guidance by clearing our mind of random/ personal thinking and allowing a different opinions, thoughts, and feelings enter to understand a different viewpoint.  Keeping ourselves in constant check can keep us on the right page in achieving this sense of peace and resolution.  This can allow us to grow individually and together.  Improving on our current status is in great need...and continuing assessments can keep up flourishing towards a better future.